{Clay Aiken}..."Caregiving: Servants -- and autocrats": "My series on the U.S. nursing shortage and my articles on Clay Aiken being a role model have come full circle. I was deep into writing the nursing shortage when I began getting a deluge of responses to the articles on inclusion and Dick Clark's comeback on New Year's Eve....My "ah ha" moment came when I realized Aiken was the example I had been looking for and why he stands out -- outside all of that singing. We don't see a lot of servant leaders in action. Maybe this is why so many in healthcare -- and family caregivers -- are Aiken fans and why so many wrote."